Online dating has long ceased to be something out of the ordinary. Most guys and girls choose virtual communication for its ease and the ability to be in touch without interrupting everyday activities. However, taking the first step towards communication can sometimes be difficult, especially for guys who are used to talking directly. How to start a chat with a girl on social networks so that your communication becomes memorable? Let's try to figure it out.
How to start a correspondence with a girl
Before you start conquering girls' hearts, carefully check your photo album, because the first thing a girl wants to see is what kind of person asked her to be her interlocutor. It is desirable that the photos are of high quality and reflect your character.
Don't be afraid to be yourself. The worst thing is to start a correspondence with a girl with lies, masquerading as someone else's photos.
Take a closer look at the girl herself: what kind of photos, comments, gifts, etc. she has. The best way to start a conversation is to send an unusual gift or a picture with coffee and buns and the inscription "Happy morning!", For example. Or a photo of flower fields with the caption: "I want to give them to you."
How to impress a pen girl
The first impression is the brightest and most valuable. With the phrase: "Hello, let's talk?" you won't surprise anyone. And here are the phrases: "Do you love Brahms?", "I am overwhelmed by your smile", "And you smiled today?" etc. catch and give the impression that you are an extraordinary person.
The most popular communication among young people is in the form of “The world through my eyes”, when you photograph what inspires and share your impressions. Just don't overdo it with selfies and photos like "What do I eat for breakfast / lunch / dinner." Wake up your creative personality, share something unusual.
Read more, find out the latest news and share them. But don't put on airs and be smart. Girls love it when all the attention is given to them. Therefore, in between amazing things, do not forget to give sincere compliments.
What questions should not be asked when communicating with a girl
Having started a correspondence with a girl on social networks, forget about questions about the size of her breasts and do not rush to switch to "you" until the interlocutor is ready for this.
Leave the banal questions: "What do you do?", "What do you work?", "Where do you study?" etc. There is no conversation more boring than a conversation about work and school. If the girl wants, she herself will tell about everything and ask you. In extreme cases, boring and uncomfortable questions can be played around, for example: “Let me guess who you are working for. You decorate this world with yourself, am I guessing?"
When chatting with a girl on social networks, you cannot become a "girlfriend": it is better to stop all gossip and talk about fashion / shopping right away, otherwise you will face the role of an "eternal vest" in which you can cry. You are not a trash can to be thrown at you unnecessary information. But, if you really feel that the girl is upset and depressed, it is better to ask about the presence of problems and try to turn the conversation into a cheerful channel. Sincere support is always valuable.
How to go from chatting on social media to a real meeting
So you've found the perfect pen girl. However, virtual communication is no longer enough for you. Do not hesitate to meet - sometimes the moment is missed, and interest in you will be lost.
Again, photographs can come to the rescue. Take a picture of a cozy corner in a cafe and sign: "I am waiting for you in this cafe, every evening at so and so …". Instead of a cafe, there can be a place in the park, tickets to a concert, etc.
Think over your appearance to the smallest detail. Preparing for a meeting with a penpal girl, many worry: should they give flowers? First, not everyone loves flowers. Secondly, flowers can be allergic.
So is it necessary to give anything at all? It already depends on how well you know the girl's preferences. Sometimes you can do without the so-called "welcome" gift, but already during the meeting, take and buy something as a keepsake.
It is not so difficult to start a correspondence with a girl on social networks, it is much more important to consolidate the result. If your conversation ended with a meeting, do not forget to share your impressions during online communication: remember together funny or touching moments. And the further development of events already depends on the mutual desire: to continue to communicate or to put an end to it.
